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Scratching the Seven-Year Itch, Part 4

By: The 4-Way Panel

Dear 4-Way,
I’m in a seven-year relationship with a guy I care about deeply. We own a home together, get along very well, and have a safe, stable relationship. The problem is that our relationship feels platonic, and to me, unsatisfying. I’m thirty-two and he’s thirty-eight, but we only have sex about three or four times a year. When we kiss, it’s like I’m kissing my brother. I work out and take care of myself, but he doesn’t seem to notice my efforts at all. We hardly ever do anything social together.

Playing the Numbers, Part 3

By: The 4-Way Panel

Dear 4-Way,

Why do guys ask for your phone number and then never call?—JT

    The gay man’s perspective: Darren Maddox
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